Posted on : Wednesday, May 21, 2008
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Done a lot of quiz and 1 of th answer for a quiz is so super long but real. Lols READ IT!

Give and take is part of any relationship. As one half of a partnership, you are expected to give what you can in order to fulfill your partner's needs and wishes, and ideally receive the same in return. Your results on this test refer to the role you fulfill in your current relationship. This is not necessarily a trait that you exhibit throughout life, but rather, a style or role you have adopted in your present situation. Despite the fact that most of us follow a general trend throughout our lifetime, the interaction with our partner can significantly influence our position - we may be reacting to or leading our partner's behavior. In fact, your style can be seen as a cocktail that gets shaken and stirred whenever you begin a new relationship or when the dynamics of your current relationship change. The essence may remain the same, but the added ingredients, flavors and garnishes change its taste. In general terms, the healthiest arrangement in a relationship tends to be an equal share of give and take. Couples who strike such a balance are able to identify their own needs and desires and can act on these feelings with the understanding that their partner will recognize and fulfill them. A couple that balances the giving and taking personify two people working together to make a stronger whole. Unfortunately, love does not necessarily require that the give and take division be perfectly equal. Nor does it specify what works and what doesn't. Every couple is different and what works for one may throw another pair off balance. What is most important is that the distribution satisfies both partners. Keep this in mind as you check out your score.
Giver/taker score	73
According to your score, you are generally the giver in your relationship - you seem to enjoy providing your partner with whatever she/he needs. Maybe the motivation for your giving nature comes from the gratitude you receive after having given to your partner. Or maybe the act itself is amply fulfilling. Whatever the reason, as long as you’re happy with this arrangement, then by all means, give to your heart’s content! After all, giving can be a truly beautiful thing if your offerings are well received and appreciated. Keep in mind however, that giving too much can have its drawbacks. As a habitual giver, you may be putting your lover's needs and wants before your own in your desire to please. It does feel nice at first to bask in your partner’s appreciation, but eventually, this sense of contentment may wear thin - especially if your mate gets into the habit of expecting (or feeling entitled) to receive, and offers nothing in return. Don't let yourself become trapped in such a pattern. If giving to your partner no longer brings you joy, feelings of resentment and frustration may start to develop. Give only because you truly want to, not because you feel obliged or want something in return. Being the giver in a relationship could leave your partner as the taker, which may or may not be a position she/he is comfortable with. Granted, there are likely many couples who are perfectly content with such an arrangement but for some people, being the constant taker can become suffocating over time. Whatever the case is in your relationship, don’t count yourself short. You deserve just as much attention, love and respect as your partner.

1) What is your favourite colour?

a) Red

b) Pink My answer is RED

c) Yellow

d) Light blue

2) What is your favourite hang-out place with your friends?

a) Home

b) Shopping mall My answer is Shopping mall

c) Dinner at restaurant

3) What is your usual dress code?

a) Pants and shirt

b) Long flowy dress My answer is pants and shirts? No other choice. =x

c) Pajamas?

d) Cap, mini running shorts and singlet

4) If you had free time, what would you do?

a) Have a picnic with family and relatives

b) Throw a party with friends

c) Read a book My answer is Throw a party with friends (:

d) Play with your dolls

5) Name one of your hobbies

a) Photography

b) Studying My answer is dancing (if i dare)

c) Dancing

6) What is your favourite genre of music?

a)Pop

b) Rock My answer is rock i think?

c) Classical

7) In your opinion, who is the most important person/people/thing in your life?

a) *Him

b) Bank account My answer is him lar of cause seh =.-

c) Family

8) If your mother gives you $50, you would...

a) Donate it to charity

b) Demand more, because it's not enough to get you the stuff you want My answer is B?

c) Give it to the bully because he/she says so

9) If the guy of your dreams asks you out the day before the exams, you...

a) Tell him to study for the exams first.

b) Just go out with him My answer is B. Cause i might lose th chance to =x

c) Run away quickly

10) What is your favourite time of the day?

a) Afternoon

b) Morning My answer is night.

c) Night

11) MAKE A WISH!

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TIME'S UP!

Now for the FUN part...

1) What is your favourite colour?

-Red (brave)

-Pink (sweet)

-Yellow (fun)

-Light blue (carefree)

2) What is your favourite hang-out place with your friends?

-Home (simple)

-Shopping mall (crazy, fun)

-Dinner at restaurant (serious)

3) What is your usual dress code?

-Pants and shirt (simple)

-Long flowy dress (graceful, elegant)

-Pajamas? (sloppy)

-Cap, mini running shorts and singlet (atheletic)

4) If you had free time, what would you do?

-Have a picnic with family and relatives (cares, loves family)

-Throw a party with friends (wacky)

-Read a book (shy, hardworking)

-Play with your dolls (childish)

5) Name one of your hobbies

-Photography (creative)

-Studying (clever, mature)

-Dancing (graceful)

6) What is your favourite genre of music?

-Pop (fun)

-Rock (loud, crazy)

-Classical (relaxed, carefree)

7) In your opinion, who is the most important person/people/thing in your life?

-*Him (lovesick)

-Bank account (moneyminded)

-Family (lovable, sweet)

8) If your mother gives you $50, you would...

-Donate it to charity (helpful)

-Demand more, because it's not enough to get you the stuff you want (greedy)

-Give it to the bully because he/she says so (soft)

9) If the guy of your dreams asks you out the day before the exams, you...

-Tell him to study for the exams first. (mature)

-Just go out with him (naughty)

-Run away quickly (shy)

10) What is your favourite time of the day?

-Afternoon (cheerful)

-Morning (healthy)

-Night (dark, emotional)

Im love sick but not greedy. Maybe not love sick. Its just LOVE him too much!

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